{"id":2661,"date":"2026-07-26T13:15:38","date_gmt":"2026-07-26T11:15:38","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.tattoobayo.com\/?p=2661"},"modified":"2026-08-27T22:56:49","modified_gmt":"2026-08-27T20:56:49","slug":"other-peoples-opinions","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.tattoobayo.com\/en\/de-mening-van-anderen\/","title":{"rendered":"Other people\u2019s opinions"},"content":{"rendered":"

Other people\u2019s opinions are really the last thing you should worry about.<\/p>\n

I always say that an opinion is like a bum. Everyone\u2019s got one.<\/p>\n

You can\u2019t do anything with it, and you don\u2019t want to.<\/p>\n

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You\u2019re only the talk of the town for three days<\/h2>\n

 <\/p>\n

I get that myself from time to time.<\/p>\n

You hear something that makes you think: \u2018I\u2019d never do that myself.\u2019.<\/p>\n

But that\u2019s as far as it goes.<\/p>\n

Yet many people are afraid of what others might think.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

 <\/p>\n

For gossip.<\/p>\n

What the neighbours might say.<\/p>\n

For colleagues who talk behind your back.<\/p>\n

What the family thinks of it.<\/p>\n

And the in-laws.<\/p>\n

 <\/p>\n

But do you know what I\u2019ve learnt as a content creator?<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

It\u2019s surprising how short people\u2019s attention spans are.<\/strong><\/p>\n

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Today's news<\/h2>\n

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When I started creating content and putting myself out there on the internet for the first time, I knew, of course, that everyone would have an opinion about it.<\/p>\n

Personally, I have absolutely no problem with nudity; I see it as something natural. If my neighbour were to post a naked photo of herself online, it wouldn\u2019t faze me in the slightest. It\u2019s up to each individual to decide what they do.<\/p>\n

Everyone is naked underneath their clothes; every body has its good points and its flaws. If you want to see it, you look. If you don\u2019t feel the need to, you don\u2019t look.<\/p>\n

What\u2019s more, we\u2019re living in 2026, not 1863. So many people earn their money on platforms such as OnlyFans, Fansly, LoyalFans and F2F.<\/p>\n

Despite this, I heard that certain people were forwarding my photos.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

As if it were yesterday\u2019s news.<\/strong><\/p>\n

 <\/p>\n

And then\u2026<\/p>\n

Nothing happened.<\/p>\n

After a few days, everyone was already on to something else.<\/strong><\/p>\n

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People get used to anything, wherever they are<\/h2>\n

 <\/p>\n

That is perhaps the most remarkable thing about people.<\/p>\n

We get used to almost anything.<\/p>\n

 <\/p>\n

A colourful hairstyle.<\/p>\n

A massive tattoo.<\/p>\n

A striking car.<\/p>\n

A special job.<\/p>\n

A rather unusual relationship.<\/p>\n

A remarkable divorce.<\/p>\n

A naked content creator.<\/p>\n

 <\/p>\n

What seems shocking today will simply be part of the background by next week.<\/strong><\/p>\n

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The greatest fear often lasts only a moment<\/h2>\n

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Many people don\u2019t dare to do what they\u2019d really like to do for fear of what others might think.<\/p>\n

Many people don\u2019t dare to pursue their dreams because they\u2019re afraid of how others might react.<\/p>\n

But reactions have a shelf life.<\/p>\n

 <\/p>\n

Most people are far too busy with their own lives to spend months focusing on yours.<\/p>\n

You think you\u2019re the talk of the town.<\/p>\n

They\u2019re already thinking about the next person who\u2019ll do something out of the ordinary.<\/p>\n

 <\/p>\n

Just keep turning up<\/h2>\n

 <\/p>\n

That is perhaps the most important lesson I have learnt.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t stop just because people are talking.<\/p>\n

Carry on as normal.<\/p>\n

Because if you keep showing up consistently, something special happens.<\/p>\n

 <\/p>\n

People stop focusing on how different you are.<\/p>\n

And start looking at what you\u2019re actually making.<\/p>\n

Why you\u2019re making it.<\/p>\n

And that could well turn out to be quite a surprise.<\/p>\n

 <\/p>\n

No surprise<\/h2>\n

 <\/p>\n

Whereas at first I kept quiet about what I was doing \u2013 not out of fear, but because I didn\u2019t fancy getting into arguments \u2013 I ended up getting some brilliant reactions from the people I did tell.<\/p>\n

Many people didn\u2019t even bat an eyelid. Not because they would have chosen this profession themselves, but because it didn\u2019t surprise them that I was doing it.<\/p>\n

A number of women who by then knew what I did even said they were interested too.<\/p>\n

Women from whom I would never have expected this myself.<\/p>\n

A few people offered to let me do a photoshoot in their warehouse, their studio, their home and on their boat, which resulted in some fantastic photos.<\/p>\n

 <\/p>\n

It is indeed true that everyone has an opinion.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

But it\u2019s by no means always negative.<\/strong><\/p>\n

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What other people think doesn\u2019t matter<\/h2>\n

 <\/p>\n

I think most creators will recognise this.<\/p>\n

At first, you\u2019re \u2018that woman with the tattoos\u2019.<\/p>\n

\u2018That Findomme.\u2019<\/p>\n

\u2018That woman from OnlyFans.\u2019<\/p>\n

And one day, you\u2019ll just be yourself.<\/p>\n

 <\/p>\n

Not because you\u2019ve changed.<\/p>\n

But because everyone has got used to it.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

 <\/p>\n

You\u2019re only the talk of the town for a brief moment. After that, you\u2019re just someone living their own life. And perhaps that\u2019s exactly the kind of freedom so many people are looking for.<\/strong><\/p>\n

 <\/p>\n

Do you enjoy reading my work and would you like to support me?<\/p>\n

You can do that here.<\/a><\/p>\n

Thank you for inspiring me to keep creating.<\/p>\n

X<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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